tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185616476496789800.post5845243440149331262..comments2023-05-10T05:37:56.074-04:00Comments on Our Little Family's Journey: NegativeJacksmomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12828208191293796948noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185616476496789800.post-66006958883404456962011-03-12T20:16:01.408-05:002011-03-12T20:16:01.408-05:00So so sorry :/So so sorry :/RELHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11527280213368948100noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185616476496789800.post-84529732513238130842011-03-11T21:31:30.132-05:002011-03-11T21:31:30.132-05:00Hey beautiful lady, I am so so sorry. Unfortunatel...Hey beautiful lady, I am so so sorry. Unfortunately I know just how you feel. The negative is such a devastating blow. You try so hard to not get your hopes up, but you also just HAVE TO BELIEVE that it will work. I know that it sounds trite and stupid, but I know that there must be a reason. Maybe the baby that God wants you to have is one of those other, successful frozen embryos. I'm praying that you have enough insurance money left to give those a try. Because this round was really so successful in every other way! (Except the most important part...) We're feeling close to resigned that Juliana will have to be an only child because at this point we are unwilling to do IVF again because of our last experience. It's sad, but it also makes her all the more precious, just as I know your darling Jack is. And if that's what God has planned for you, then that is the best way, although it's hard to see why. But, I also believe that God wants us to use the abilities that he has given us as humans as much as we can (which is why I am a believer in modern medicine), and so I know that He wants you to continue trying if you have the financial resources. He's given us the ability to help solve some infertility issues, and there may be some other reason for this failed cycle that you will never know. But when you have a success down the line, that baby will be YOUR baby and you will wonder how it could have ever been one of the other embryos. I know that I've just babbled on and on and probably not been helpful at all to you in this painful time, and probably not made any sense. But I just want you to know that I understand, and I care, and I'm praying for you. Much love!Jennifer Paynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06396283927276162268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185616476496789800.post-64523922836038106652011-03-11T15:21:05.900-05:002011-03-11T15:21:05.900-05:00So sorry to hear, and I know there's not much ...So sorry to hear, and I know there's not much for me to say. Glad you'll be able to love on your little boy and get sweet hugs and kisses from him. Sending prayers for you!Tinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06483073088839971159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185616476496789800.post-11443292190550260542011-03-11T14:47:04.659-05:002011-03-11T14:47:04.659-05:00I am so very sorry for you and Arch- i know your h...I am so very sorry for you and Arch- i know your hearts are broken. Please let me know whatever I can do to help you. It sounds so lame but I dont know what to do. I thank God everyday for our sweet Jack.<br />Love<br />MomJacks grandmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16091156589225893673noreply@blogger.com